does your website need to track gender?
does it REALLY need to track gender?
does it REALLY REALLY need to track gender?
are you POSITIVE it needs to track gender?

Today's class was 16 people, and I was one of the relative noobs in the room. Which was 90% great in that I probably have a year's worth of stuff to work on from that few hours, and 10% eek in that my self-consciousness about not already being good at this form definitely got in my way a bit. Why do I do that to myself?

Tomorrow's class is likely to be huge because it's on the foundational form we all learn. Very different scene.

Are you in the US and have been prescribed stimulants (e.g. for ADHD or autoimmune stuff)? FDA is seeking public comments (deadline 11/19), here’s a commenting guide from a friend who’s a disabled lawyer fighting all the crap that makes it harder to get the right medications. Please read and consider commenting, even if you’re not going these messages atm, or perhaps a dependent or family member needs them. patreon.com/posts/31604740 please boost, literally lives at stake here

Please tell me why I shouldn't order a range of YOUR LOGO branded clothing.

:wiphala_bolivia: 

Once a month I run through this form with my usual teacher taking detailed notes to give me the next month of things to work on, and that always feels like a test, even though it's even less of one than tomorrow's session will be. The whole point is for her to see where to direct my attention next, and there will always be things.

In fact: this evening, the visiting teacher promised that if he comes back next year he'll tell us what he's improved on, and _that_'s great teaching by example.

Some of this is a little self-imposed pressure because (a) I'm my school's senior student so I do feel an obligation to represent, and (b) I'm trying to get to where I can fruitfully work alone on this form in case we do move to Victoria next year. But it's not helpful, and _rationally_ I know it's also not called for.

My taiji grandmaster's son--who is also an excellent teacher--is in town, so I'm amidst 5 days of workshops with him. Yesterday and today were big groups, but tomorrow is likely to be a small group and all about the form I'm learning newly this year. It's funny how nervous I feel about this. Like, this is not a test or a demonstration, and while the chances are I'll be one of the least experienced students in the room, he'll also know that and understand.

Gratitude lists not working for you? You're not the problem.

goodhousekeeping.com/life/a453

This essay said some things I needed to hear at a time when I really needed to hear them. I'm putting this out there in case someone else needs to hear them, too.

request for trans-friendly press contact in Seattle 

Thousands of years from now, alien archeologists will be digging through the remains of human civilization. "What do you think killed them off?" "It appears to have been a 'gender reveal announcement'."

Dear stranger, I know you're late, and I know that finding meeting rooms in this building can be confusing. But if you're too wrapped up in your anger about that to let me finish my sentence when I'm giving you directions, you will get lost again because you haven't actually let me tell you where to go.

my pronouns are she/her/'); DROP TABLE Genders;--

sound transit just sent out a survey on fare enforcement on link/sounder

fill it out if you would? #seattle soundtransit.org/fareenforceme

cops, utility 

cops, repression 

:weirder_earth: will always block police acounts as we find them, as promised in github.com/dzuk-mutant/weirder

Please understand the limits of what we can do to protect you. These blocks can keep cop propaganda out of our TLs, and add friction to cops' attempts to spy on or intimidate people. But we are not capable of catching all undercover cops, and we can not guarantee that accounts here will never be subpoenaed or hacked.

The account of the Assam Police has been suspend from this instance.

We decided that we will not welcome cops on this instance, and we encourage the rest of the fediverse to do the same.

Following multiple reports, we decided that it's more important that our community feels safe and in security, than to be a platform for official communication.

Thank you ! :trebuchet:

don’t know Why i even have to say this put making and boosting posts that will or potentially will freeze people’s apps is rude so like don’t do that

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