if you like to be called enby you're valid because it's one of the few casual words we have to talk about ourselves
but binary people, before calling anyone enby, please think about how it's a rather infantilizing word and that's an issue that affects the non-binary community (especially transmasc nonbinaries) and how it can be a bit insulting if it's not asked for
@numen Yeah I tend to use enby for cute fun stuff or more casual stuff, but if I'm talking about the community as a whole in a more serious way I try to use nonbinary. Not everyone likes to use enby
@RadiantEmber like among us i assume it's casual and well-intentioned, and generally appreciated by most people but i'm mostly hesitant when binary people, esp cis people, use it
@numen yeah, that makes sense
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