realtalk though there is like this entire catalogue of things with me which aren't really relevant for friends to know but which become extremely relevant in any sort of romantic relationship context and i think it's grown far too large and significant to just try to address as one goes and i don't really know what to do with that
@onethousandtwentyfour i feel like okcupid should have figured this out by now!
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