I don't enumerate my praxis, but if I did, "do not argue vocabulary across class lines" would be on there.

I'm an ivory tower feminist. Blue-collar queers have way better things to do than to listen to me twaddle on about definitions. (No, this was not brought on by any discussion anywhere recently. I just had a moment of missing the former partner with whom I learned this lesson. I can't talk to them so instead I'm here sharing it with y'all.)